Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Mississauga Chapters Recap & Into the Light










Two avid readers and fans of John Holmes' work,
pose for a photo opportunity, as promised! Hope you enjoy the book, guys!

On Saturday November 28th, from 11-7pm, I had the good fortune of being the special guest author at this very busy Chapters location that borders Oakville, Ontario. The day passed quickly as I thoroughly enjoyed meeting everyone (including women!) who crossed paths with me to chat about John Holmes: A Life Measured in Inches and its origins - thanks to Jennifer.

As always, people are curious to notice a 50-something woman talking with the public about the late porn star and they generally inquire as to what had inspired me to join Jennifer in telling this very in-depth story about one man's turbulent, but also fascinating, high voltage, and at times, heartbreaking life. It is my personal belief, especially since having our book published, that Jennifer and I were not only ideal candidates to take on such a monstrous amount of research and hard work, but that there was also a sense of destiny to our endeavor.

My husband had repeatedly questioned me when we were up to our eyeballs in interviews, narrative composition, and watching mountains of John Holmes' DVDs, VOD, and VHS tapes containing vintage, but grainy black and white loops, why a complete biography on John Holmes had not been written prior to 2008. I would always smile at him and answer, "Because Jennifer and I are supposed to write it." That wasn't arrogance on my part, it was a completely genuine response.

I'd like to take a moment to remind readers that John did attempt to document his life through audiotapes in the early to mid 1980s, but he passed away prior to its full completion. John's widow Laurie pieced together much of the information that John had imparted and published Porn King ten years after his death in 1998. She also wrote a beautiful epilogue in John's memory to conclude the book.

On Saturday, a significant connection occured that reinforced my intuition. A store customer and his wife stopped by to talk about the book and the motivation behind writing about a legendary and tragic figure like Holmes. They were both familiar with John Holmes, "porn star", but I was surprised to learn that they were also knowledgable of John's traumatic and abusive childhood. I was truly impressed as that component is as tangible a part of John's story as is his infamy as an adult film star, his connection to the Laurel Canyon murders and his death from AIDS.

After engaging in conversation for a while, the gentleman introduced himself as Richard Perry, Director of Operations for The Gatehouse, a Child Abuse Support Investigation Site located in Toronto, Ontario. I was not familiar with The Gatehouse, but I was very interested in hearing what Richard Perry and his wife had to say about this special home and the people there.

Perry's main area of interest is with the men's program called Into the Light. He works with male survivors of childhood physical and sexual abuse and he explained that there are not enough support programs available for male survivors. He also confirmed a fact that I had always suspected to be true: an alarming majority of males incarcerated in medium to maximum security prisons are victims of various forms of child brutality. Not surprisingly, many of these boys eventually act-out when they reach puberty and also adulthood, by perpetrating their self-loathing, hurt and anger against friends, co-workers, loved ones and ultimately society. After taking a self-guided tour of the former Alcatraz prison last July and becoming educated about the lives of some of its notorious inmates, I understood what Perry was saying.

At the conclusion of our enlightening discussion, Richard invited me to come out in the New Year to meet some of the men who are currently participating in the Into the Light program. I accepted his offer and was honoured and touched when he asked me if I would be interested in contemplating writing a book that would help male survivors share their stories.

Please check out this website link to Into the Light: http://www.thegatehouse.org/into-the-light

You never know where life will lead you, and at this point I seriously consider all opportunities. It's especially nice to have another idea on the back burner as we have already begun research and interviews for a new book that will highlight the women of the Golden Age of Erotic Films.

Thank you, Richard, and thanks to everyone else who stopped by (and bought books!) on Saturday. It was really great to meet you all.

P.S. To my very busy co-author, Jennifer... you were right beside me. :-)

Please also visit our website: www.johnholmesinches.com

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